How significant is your insignificant and vice versa?
Let's evaluate how in one's perceptive reality, something should be valuated as being trivial or critical. Consider the logic in deductive reasoning - if an item which was removed or added does not effect an outcome in any way, said item is insignificant to the entirety. In pragmatic maxim, an item which may be added or eliminated without affecting the outcome of a concept is not part of said concept.
Parallax: Does an award or citation mean something? None except as a psychological, ego or morale booster for oneself. Other's perception of you is actually insignificant in determining attainment in one's perceptive reality. If you haven't achieved what you had willed for, you have failed regardless of what you have been awarded for.
Parallax: Significance in other's perceptive reality versus one's own. Your significance or insignificance in other's perceptive reality can be ascertained to by your state of being present or absent. To determine how significant you are in other's perceptive reality, simply take a leave of absence and observe how many people looked for you? Were you missed? Has anything changed? This can be further substantiated by tallying the number of people who would surround you during your most troubled times against those who would cheer your most rewarding moments. To determine how significant you are in your own perceptive reality, tally the number of things you had accomplished against the number of things you want to.
The human physical term averages to about eighty years which may be insignificant compared to the billions of years the world had and could be in existence, but in our perceptive reality we would treasure each moment of life as if time existed just for us. The world's human population ranged in the billions. Unless one is a president, king, star or tycoon, would be just another statistical data represented by some alphanumeric symbol, yet we would love and worship our names and emblems as if gods. People sacrificed lives and limbs to acquire earthly treasures, yet not realizing the world consists of mineral stone deposits in greater volume than the grains of dust we were made of. Humans lust and kill for food and sex, yet not realizing that food is a consequence of nature and sex is an urge which can be satiated by anyone of the billions we share the world with. The universe is innately huge that even as you are reading this article, another may be doing and meditating as you are and resembling you in so many ways. As we find significance in other's perceptive reality, we tend to find our own insignificance and vice versa. The key lies in how to strike a balance between our interconnected realities. Without others we would not be able to valuate the relevance of our significance and insignificance. Without self-significance, we would all be living as a consequence of others' perceptive realities.
"It is ironic that as humans, we had exhausted so much resources in a futile attempt to change and conquer a world which we perceived and claimed as reality, when the only conquerable conquest we ever should and could have conquered is oneself - our minds' perception of reality that is."



