Aesthetics, a branch of philosophy dealing with sensory perceptive valuation of what one may classify as tasteful, artistic and beautiful. Being a perceptive valuation, it would be logical to infer that aesthetics are basically opinions of the mind. Something or someone may be aesthetically appealing to one but totally repugnant to another.
Parallax: To what extent does aesthetics affect our perceptive reality? If you find someone or something aesthetically appealing, the natural tendency you be attracted and biased toward that soever. Conversely, if others find you good looking, they will favor and prioritize you over another, granting other factors remained constant. Above had something to do with the subjective, emotional or urge process of thinking. With aesthetic appeal in favor of someone or something, the tendency to command priority cannot be understated. Though the challenges and complexities in life may require more than aesthetics to resolve, being perceived as tasteful, beautiful or handsome may give someone an upper hand barring other factors. Thus explained - why people go to great extends just to improve their physical outlooks.
On the other hand, aesthetic appeal only affects one's perceptive reality to the extent one allows. For any reason, if in your perceptive reality, you don't think looks are incidental in attracting another, maybe you prefer to capitalize on other aspects of human perception than aesthetics, you never willed to "attract" another, you don't think aesthetics is relevant to any outcome of your perceptive reality. As such, aesthetic appeal will not affect your perceptive reality. If you have seen "bad looking" people whom notwithstanding their appearance, seemed to supersede you in many aspects, this is your perceptive reality telling yourself, some non-aesthetically appealing people simply didn't let other people's perceptions affect their lives.
The following experiment can be performed to determine one's aesthetic appeal over a given time, locality, social strata, age, race, ethnicity etc. Accompany some friends to a chosen locality where you may find people you would like to "attract". Pick a noticeable position where people cannot "miss" you when they pass by. Position your friends to surround you in such varying perspective of views that they may be able to monitor and count everyone who passes you by. You may pretend you are alone. Let your friends score you 2 points for each person (male or female doesn't matter as this is an aesthetic appeal test, which is different from a sex appeal test) who looked at you and kept looking. Score you 1 point for each who looked at you then looked away. Score you 0 point for those who didn't even bother to look. Gather the scores accumulated by your friends and divide the total by the number of passersby. Multiply by 100 to get your percentage score. If you score below 50%, your aesthetic appeal may need improvement. If you score between 50-75%, you may be fairly attractive. If you score above 75%, you may be a looker. Take note, your aesthetic scores may fluctuate at different localities as different types of individuals have varying aesthetic standards of perception. However, it is noted that people with "starlet" or "model" like (as well as unusual or abstracted) aesthetic features most often scored high at any chosen locality. Have fun! Remember, your aesthetic scores only reflect how you perceived others to be perceiving you, how good looking you may perceive yourself to be, NOT how you prefer to be perceived, NEITHER who you are in totality.